Father Joseph slept on his couch for about the whole month before he passed away. We had obtained hospice bed for him about the same time but he was not ready to make that transition. It was almost as if he was telling us once I am in that bed I will have transitioned into the next phase. So we never pushed him into anything he was not ready for. Thursday night before he passed, Fr Kevin and I had to help Father Joseph for several hours with some tasks. It was incredibly painful to see him go through these tasks again not taking anything away from him. Before he went back to the couch, we discussed with him the option of this bed that was very comfortable and would help him with some of the pressure sores he had on his body that were being irritated by sleeping on the couch and the fact that this bed could be adjusted with height and head and leg position. He agreed to try it. A few weeks earlier I had made with bed linens that were similar in texture to the couch so that it would feel similar on his broken down skin. I searched in a closet and found a quilt made by a homeschool group out in Kennesaw, GA from St. Catherine's. One side was made of a fabric bought at a store with prayers on it. The other side was square quilt pieces they put prayers on from different families and some had drawn pictures. I just picked the prayer fabric side again for the texture against his skin. The square side may have had some bumps or stitching that he may or may not of been sensitive to. When he passed away and the funeral home came to take him away, I picked up the quilt and found that the underside where his head wound was positioned as he lay there was on top of the square someone had stitched in the Sacred Heart of Jesus.
Sacred Heart of Jesus pray for us.